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 There’s a clip going around right now on TikTok that stopped me in my tracks. A young man—tough looking, outdoors type, not someone you’d expect to wear his emotions on his sleeve—starts off by saying: “I don’t really get emotional about a lot of things…” And then it hits. A simple note. A handmade cross. A few words from a friend who is no longer here. The note reads: “Hey buddy, I’m going to keep it short… don’t forget I love you. I had this made so you can hang it in your truck. When you see it, you’ll think of me.” That’s it. No long goodbye. No dramatic speech. Just a few lines… and something to remember him by. And suddenly, that tough exterior cracks. Because it always does. We All Think We Have More Time That’s the lie we live with. We think there will be another conversation. Another laugh. Another chance to say what needs to be said. But sometimes… there isn’t. And when that moment comes, all that’s left are the things people leave behind. A note. A voice message. A memo...

 I want to say this carefully, because I’m not trying to nit-pick or stir up controversy—but it’s something I’ve seen happen far too many times to ignore. And that is ministers falling by the wayside… over something as simple as a motorcycle. Now let me be clear: a motorcycle, in and of itself, is not evil. It’s just a machine. It’s no different than a car or a truck in that regard. But what comes with it —the image, the culture, the identity—can become a stumbling block if we’re not careful. Whether we like it or not, motorcycles often carry a certain image: rebellion, rough living, black leather, gangs, and violence. That may not be true for everyone who rides—but perception matters, especially in ministry. And I’ve seen what happens when that line gets blurred. Last year, I watched a pastor purchase a motorcycle. At first, it seemed harmless. But within days—days—he walked away from his church. He stopped attending services altogether. Before long, he was back to cussing an...

  When most people think about end-of-life arrangements, two options typically come to mind: traditional burial or cremation. However, in recent years, several alternative methods of final disposition have emerged—many of them designed to be more environmentally friendly, cost-effective, or personally meaningful. While some of these methods are still gaining acceptance in certain regions, they represent a growing shift in how we think about death care and legacy. Green Burial Green burial is one of the most widely recognized alternatives to traditional burial. At its core, it focuses on returning the body to the earth in the most natural way possible. This means no embalming chemicals, no metal caskets, and often no concrete vaults. Instead, the body is typically placed in a biodegradable casket or simple shroud and buried in a natural setting. The goal of green burial is to minimize environmental impact and allow natural decomposition to occur. Many green cemeteries also maint...